Weekly Reflection 27

When there are lot of things have changes, a lot of plans have to be changed as well... Don't you agree?

1.Marriage: So yesterday Cu, Somnang and I were both off. We were talking about my friend's husband who could be cheating on her since she found out the message from another last on her husband's cellphone when he forgot his cellphone at home. Cu was wondering if the husband really cheated on her, and that was when Somnang was saying that "It was all about sex, not just love. He still love his wife, and just likes to sleep around for sex. That's all." Cu and I was like, "THAT'S ALL?! What are you talking about?!!" Cu thought it was ridiculous for Somnang to say so, it was "cheating" regardless what the reason was. I was angry deep inside, knowing that Somnnag has the same relationship with a married man, and I felt like she was giving herself an excuse! She said, "Yea, it was a human nature which cannot resist of temptation from sex." I laught bitterly, "Yes, it was human nature, but he already made his choice, made commitment to the marriage, it's not just about sex now, it comes with his sense of responsibility!" Gosh, I don't care what other single guys do, if they sleep around with other girls, that's fine with me, at least they are single and they are not into any committed relationship. But with a married guy, it's totally wrong. Cu said maybe my friend gained so much weight from giving birth, and the sex is different now. But still, the husband should not do such thing to a wife. I was thinking in my head, how different could the sex be before and after the pregnancy?


2. Health: Feeling very sleepy around 11pm nowaday, but still stubborn to go to bed. Maybe I already get used to sleep late, and just wanna make sure that Cu goes to bed when I am ready to sleep too. So that I don't have to hear the noise from his computer when I am asleep.

3. House: House buying plan has changed due to the reason that we need this money for our business.

4. Financial: Cu said that he talked to his regional manager to learn more about the cash flow in the business. He realized that there were a lot of charges that he didn't aware of to have our own business. Thus, he decided that we should keep the money that is for house to do our business next. All I want right now is as long as we have better income, buying house is just a matter of time.

5. Education: I have a lot of thoughs recently about what to study next. There are a lot of things that I would like to do, and I cannot make up my minds.

6. Work/Career: I focus more on my work at restaurant now as the business at nail shop is running slow due to the school getting starts. I had a customer asked me to apply for a sale position at his company because he thought that I would be the right person that he has been looking for, especially he liked the fact that I speak both Cantonese and Mandarin, and his company deals with a lot of customers who speak these two languages.

7. Home (Malaysia): It sucks but I make this decision for a better future. Thinking about going home might cost so much money and we have to save the money again after coming back from Malaysia, Cu and I decided not to go back during this period of time yet.

8. Passport: Since I do not need to renew my passport, so I don't have to worry about this matter anymore. At least for now!

9. My Brother's Wedding: I think plan for going home has been canceled and we would not be able to attend my brother's wedding in November.

10. Future: Right now we focus solely on business plan since it will take a lot of money for investment.