This week passes by so fast, maybe I was so busy with work and have no plan on what I need to do at all for last week.
1.Marriage: Remember my friend who has a very good future-in-laws? Cu received her call last weekend, complaining about her future husband MIGHT be cheating on her. Her future husband left his cellphone at home and she found out a suspenseful text message from a woman that used to work together with him. Cu told her to call the phone company to see how often they have texted each other, she called and shocked to find out that there were a lot text messages between two of them. But the NUMBER of text messages did not prove anything as she couldn't read what they have texted each other. I told her that she should just confront him in order to clear her confusion, most importantly she started to have doubt into her relationship and even thinking of breaking up and leave everything (including her 1 year old son) behind. Although few days later, she told me that she had accepted the explanation and she forgave whatever had happened, I still feel that the guy had cheated on her. I think her situation doens't let her to give up the relationship so easily especially when she already have a child and rooted for better future with him... A big, expansive house and business provided by the guy's parents! Who can resist those temptation? Cu asked me if I would think that the guy had cheated on her? I say yes. For many signs that she showed me, it was so obvious that he cheated on her. But reality hurts, she cannot give up everything that she owns now, but continue to live in her life.
2. Health: Feeling dizzy lately, Somnang said that I work too hard lately.
3. House: Lazy to cook, lazy to clean up the house.
4. Financial: Everything goes smooth and better.
5. Education: Application in progress.
6. Work/Career: Working at both places and working on our business plan.
7. Home (Malaysia): So now is the time to say that I will go home in November if nothing has changed.
8. Passport: I guess the reason I feel like I need to go home is to renew my passport that is going to be expired in January 2011. Since I don't have to worry about my passport anymore, I just need to make sure about my travel document for coming back to US if I ever go back home.
9. My Brother's Wedding: Hope to attend my brother's wedding real soon!
10. Future: Business plan is on trial, family and going home plan is in progress, and we will become first home buyer in February 2011!
3 comments:
This morning radio station having this topic, 好马不吃回头草？？ or 好草不怕回头吃？？
1 of the case, BF cheated her b4 married. Then she accepted him back after his explaination.
He cheated her again during her 1st pregnancy. He wanted to divorce... But then it was settled again. After 5 years, same thing happened again, he cheated her again during her 2nd pregnancy...
Now they really divorced di.. Guy really can't be trusted....
wats in my mind...
Really not so easy tat u want to give up..u can do it. sometimes u need a longer time only u can 死心....
Most of human cannot be so rational. so many years relationship wo...
ur friend, need to think deeply. if she really want to accept back the guy...still want back the relationship. she need to make a deal with the guy. The guy need to truely give up another girl. another things tat this girl need to do is, cannot mentioned this thing again next time even quarrel. And a holiday and more private time for this couple if really success.
if the guy cannot do so, tat mean this relationship cannot help anymore.
few years ago, same case happened to my eldest sister.. just tat time she not yet married n have baby. this is the way she settle with my mum advise...
Chiok & Yan, I think it's very hard too when you have committed your relationship with the guy you love and he cheated on you. Especially they have a child together now, and she doesn't have any proof that he is cheating on her. Her options are either trust him or not. Hopefully she was just being sensitive and the guy was not too sentimental to understand how a woman feels. And hope all of us will not go through those difficulties in our relationship.
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